{"id":389,"date":"2026-06-16T14:13:34","date_gmt":"2026-06-16T11:13:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/?p=389"},"modified":"2026-06-16T15:10:46","modified_gmt":"2026-06-16T12:10:46","slug":"sveders-life-os","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/?p=389","title":{"rendered":"Sveder&#8217;s Life OS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m almost 40, and over the last twenty plus years of my adulthood I&#8217;ve been slowly developing my life\/work system &#8211; basically how I know what is the next thing I should do, but much more, as I will expand on today. I get asked about various parts of it a lot and I love talking about it of course, since I&#8217;ve put countless hours into optimizing, improving, trying new tools and writing my own tools. This blog post will explain the various parts of my life\/work system for curious people, so that I will have a place to point people interested and so that I&#8217;ll have some documentation of it for myself and my LLM agents. I might update this once in a while. In case you need more context about me, click here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ll start by describing the day to day parts of the system, then the main self improvement loop and the yearly review and then tools I use and software set up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Day to day loop<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kids are in kindergarten, wife working, coffee in hand, I sit down and log in to my computer. The first thing I open is <a href=\"https:\/\/trello.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Trello<\/a> where all my work and life tasks live. I used to have two boards for work todos and life todos, but now I use one main board for both, with specific projects sometimes getting their own Trello board or a list in the ongoing projects Trello.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trello structure, lists from left to right<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>First list is Projects\/themes. It has the monthly themes card which are a few things that I should push forward during the current calendar month. It usually includes a mix of bigger picture life tasks (&#8220;Rethink all insurance I have and need&#8221;) and some work things (&#8220;Start X project and make meaningful progress&#8221;). I try to look at this list when I need some direction in the day or when I&#8217;m done with the tasks for the day and need inspiration. I recently also added smallish projects and ideas there for when I need something random to hack on.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The next 7 lists are one for each day of the week. On each day I work on the recurring tasks and the assigned tasks. Previous days become empty as the week progresses (although sometimes I assign tasks there to remember them next week).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Accompanying these there are the Week and Weekend lists that are floating &#8211; they are always to the right of the current day list and I move cards from these to the current day list when I need more things to work. I also have a tampermonkey script that adds a &#8220;random&#8221; button to the each list that chooses a random card for me to work on.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Next week list for things that specifically need to be moved to week list at the end of the week.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Backlog list &#8211; new things I don&#8217;t have time to triage are added there for later triaging to other lists.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Month lists &#8211; I usually only plan a few months forward.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Year list &#8211; basically just this year for rest of things and next year for whatever is deferred.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Then there are some lists that contain aspirational tasks that I go over once in a while and see if their time has come:\n<ol style=\"list-style-type:lower-alpha\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;Learning and self development&#8221; &#8211; things that I would like to learn but have no concrete plan for now.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Monthly habits&#8221; &#8211; Once a month I try to pick a (usually smallish) habit and persist it for at least a month.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Travel and events&#8221; &#8211; places I want to go, events I want to join (mostly long distance biking events)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;Info&#8221; &#8211; random bits of information that should really live somewhere else<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Finally &#8211; a list of shopping lists for different categories &#8211; deli groceries, books, board games, AliExpress, etc. I update them as I need something to not forget when months later I&#8217;m in the board game shop.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I take a sip of coffee (I like drinking my coffee over at least an hour) and the first task is usually writing or finishing yesterday&#8217;s log. Usually all I need to do is to fill in when I went to sleep, what I did at night and the high and low point of the day. See the self improvement loop for more about this habit. Then I bunch my tasks by &#8220;computer tasks&#8221; like coding, documenting, research and &#8220;physical tasks&#8221; like cleaning, going outside, etc. When I go outside I try to look at the label &#8220;outside&#8221; and see if there are things I can knock off along the way, and also look for hobby related things around where I&#8217;m going like geocaches, outdoor libraries and fruit trees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A lot of my tasks are related to specific projects I&#8217;m working on or researching, and some of their specific todos live in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.onenote.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">OneNote<\/a> or in a different Trello board.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I document my life and my &#8220;brain&#8221; in OneNote. It stores lots of data for me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>General facts about my life and family &#8211; important notes about people (who ever remembers blood type?), gift ideas, car\/house maintenance history, etc. This also includes restaurants visited and dishes I specifically liked, books and a short review of each, etc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Project documentation &#8211; I usually have a list of requirements, documentation of architecture, &#8220;Development stories&#8221; that are step-by-step lists of things I did, problems I&#8217;ve overcame or worked around, things to remember, etc. These stories are useful as documentation later and now with AI doing most of the work it seems like I&#8217;m doing this less and less.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Self developments &#8211; some OneNote sections support my self development loops like having the weekly\/yearly summaries, themes, goals, etc. Learning documentation falls under here.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Checklists &#8211; pre-prepared for various forms of travel (abroad, camping, day trip, etc), getting back to work after losing my focus, escape rooms, etc.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Archive &#8211; I rarely archive things, but I definitely don&#8217;t delete, so this is where archived things live.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Self improvement loop<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Every day I write a summary of things that happened that day, finishing it the day after by adding last things I&#8217;ve done and filling in the highlight, lowpoint and specific things I&#8217;m tracking like my monthly habits. I&#8217;ve been doing this for decades and have thousands of these, but there are definitely days I miss it and that&#8217;s fine. There are also months where I neglect it and I&#8217;m not happy about that.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Every week (sometimes life events make it once every two weeks) I have a weekly reflection where I go over documentation about last week and think of what happened, summarise what went well and less and major conversations I had with family and friends. Here are the things I look through for this weekly:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Last week notes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Daily summary emails<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>My home spun &#8220;timeline&#8221; email that contains trello tasks I finished, phone calls, photos from my phone, gps locations, people I talked to on whatsapp. These emails are great!<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I look over my RescueTime dashboard to see where time on the computer went.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I look at my calendar to see where real world time went.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I have a few more dashboard like trello stats, whatsapp stats, investments stats that I look at. It is so easy to build these internal tools now with LLM coding agents. Interesting is trello tasks I finished, but also trello tasks that I&#8217;ve moved from one day to another meaning I need to look into why it is not being done.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Photos on my phone &#8211; lots of times I take a photo of something as a reminder, but it is also nice to reminisce.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I go over the monthly theme and yearly\/multi year goal and see if I&#8217;m moving towards them somewhat. If not I add todos to correct this.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I also just think and remember what happened and what I might have forgotten to document.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Then after reading all of these I&#8217;m usually left with a list of ten or more todos which I move to the trello backlog and then cull the backlog moving issues to the other lists.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Before month end I have a task to prepare next month, which includes:\n<ol style=\"list-style-type:lower-alpha\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Thinking of new month themes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Populating the month Trello list by going over remains of current month, planned for the next month and sometimes the year list.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Once a year I think about life. This is less systemized, so not much to say.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Supporting Tools<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are tools that I use a lot and are relevant to the processes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I use <a href=\"https:\/\/wallabag.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">wallabag<\/a> as a &#8220;read it later&#8221; &#8211; interesting articles go there for reading in busses and other boring places.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/pocketcasts.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">PocketCasts<\/a> &#8211; podcasts go there. If a podcast has ads it should instead be fed to the (private for now) ad blocker and that feed should be subscribed to.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Google Calendar is where meeting and reminders go.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.monicahq.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Monica<\/a> &#8211; I&#8217;m evaluating it to keep track of contacts.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Sveder Dashboard &#8211; my homespun &#8220;life dashboard&#8221;. It has a lot of random tools:\n<ol style=\"list-style-type:lower-alpha\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Credit card reports and personal finance<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Trello statistics and reports (burndown for example)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Servers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I have a home server that runs self hosted tools and streaming labs.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I have the sveder.com server that runs various projects and also run some self-hosted services that need to be accessed from outside my home network:\n<ol style=\"list-style-type:lower-alpha\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/sveder.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Sveder.com<\/a> &#8211; about and blog<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/bdlr.sveder.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Bdlr.sveder.com<\/a> &#8211; My mom&#8217;s illustration of Baudelaire&#8217;s Les Fleurs du mal.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m almost 40, and over the last twenty plus years of my adulthood I&#8217;ve been slowly developing my life\/work system &#8211; basically how I know what is the next thing I should do, but much more, as I will expand &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/?p=389\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-389","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-meta"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6Z7g6-6h","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=389"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":400,"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/389\/revisions\/400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=389"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=389"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sveder.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=389"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}